maybe this is what he was worried about:

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The morning after the night before

Sometimes, very worried young men write to me because they have got very drunk and had sex with another guy. Usually, they are quite disturbed about this - especially if all their previous sexual contact has been with women.

Of course, it is possible that such men do have deep-seated urges towards other men that only emerge when they are drunk. But when this happens, much as they want to fight against it, they will have pleasant feelings - and probably erections too - when they recall what took place.

However, often a man will have no pleasant recollections and will be genuinely horrified. In this case it is usually just the alcohol that got him into trouble. Let's face it, plenty of inebriated men and women have sex with people they would not normally look at twice - and it is these very encounters that tend to lead to real trouble like unwanted pregnancy, HIV, or AIDS. Booze makes brainless monsters of us all. So if you have had a homosexual encounter when drunk, just resolve never to get that wrecked ever again.

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